Difference in Temporary Defeat and Failure

 

Difference in Temporary Defeat and Failure

Difference in Temporary Defeat and Failure

The man or woman who understands the difference between temporary defeat and failure is very fortunate in their learning and understanding.

They understand that defeats are learning processes. A good NBA team will lose 20 to 30 times in a given season, yet that team may still win the NBA title.

The season was not a failure.

More fortunate than the man or woman who understands the above difference is the woman or man who has learned the truth that the planting of success is simply asleep in every defeat they experience.

The failure believes the seed of success was killed in a defeat, not understanding it was simply dormant. If you totally understand the difference, you will be a totally successful person!

What is something you’ve taken as a failure not realizing it was a temporary defeat?

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Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time

 

Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time?

Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time?

You’ve seen it where someone is too positive all the time. They are too positive to mourn, to feel bad, to watch the news, and are a bit out of touch with reality.

I was like that for a moment in time where I’d be around some friends of mine and they would be giving me the rundown on the atrocities and negative news going around the world and city, and I’d first of all didn’t know these types of things existed.

It started when I went on an information fast and completely stopped watching the news, reading the paper, reading news blogs, and listening to podcasts. When I did come back to info consumption, I only read books that lined up with my goals and dreams, and aspirations.

Naturally, I’m an empathetic person, so if someone called me with the news that someone died or was shot, I’d respond the way a normal person should respond to someone else’s bad sad or troubling news.

That’s terrible, and saddening. I’m really sorry to hear that. Is there anything specific you need from me (besides my unconditional care and love – I don’t say that part, but I express it)?”

From there I find positives that can counter some of the negatives and act as hope for them or light in the midst of their dark moment.

People who ignore or brush off, or quickly move to another topic, upon hearing bad news from someone else, are not being fake, but they have lost touch with reality a bit. They perhaps also have a low level of empathy or don’t know how to express empathy well.

Positive people feel all the emotions that negative or ordinary people feel. The difference is that we make a conscious decision and effort to turn the camera from the negative scene and go back to the positive one.

Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time

It is possible to be positive all the time; such person is a “conscious being,” and that consciousness has seeped into their subconsciousness and that becomes all they know.

The only way they know how to respond to anything has been poured into them so that it is natural and automatic. It’s not fake, it is who they have become or transformed into.

Do you know people positive all the time, and how do you deal with them?

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Activating Your Power Through Authority

 

Activating Your Power Through Authority

Activating Your Power Through Authority

Power is organized effort, and it leads to success.

As you go after organized effort, which is power, you will most likely find yourself in a position of asking or needing help from someone who is more powerful than you are at that moment.

When you run into such a case, you must understand the way or the formula of asking for help. Powerful people do not give help to weak beggerly people.

This is what brother James tells in the scripture, to boldly ask for what you want from your Creator and do not come doubtingly or window-washy. James says that such a man will not get anything from God with that type of mindset.

It is perhaps the same reason why such a person will not receive anything from the hands of man, if they come asking in the wrong way. The way to ask for help from someone more powerful than you, lives in your ability to understand the person you’re dealing with and not to confuse what you need from them with their needs.

Robert Greene says in the book Power (p98), that most people never succeed at getting what they want from other powerful people, because they are completely trapped in their own wants and desires.

They begin their quest for what they want by assuming the powerful people they are dealing with are selfless and want to help them. Nobody wants to help you, therefore you must find a way to help their need in order for them to want to help whatever your need is.

This is what we call authority and it will help to activate any power, organized effort, that you need. You need to be authorized and that comes from powerful people by dealing with their needs in order to fulfill yours.

What kind of problems have you faced that got smaller when you saw some of the problems of other people in the world?

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Welcome to the Company Who Almost

 

Welcome to the Company Who Almost

Welcome to the Company Who Almost

People can say stuff like, “he barely made it,” or “she just got in by the skin of her teeth,” however, they are forgetting a major part of their sentence. “Made it,” and “got in!”

There are a lot of people throughout history who have barely made it, who failed over and over and finally won or succeed.

Michael Jordan, Lebron James, Steph Curry, Abraham Lincoln, President Barack Obama, and many more. If you’ve failed but are still looking at your goals and objectives, you are in great company.

In fact, I say welcome to the company of people who almost failed. You’re in, until you’re out. You do until you don’t, but there is a list of great men and women who were ALMOST failures and are known today as winners and champions.

You are more than a conqueror, so keep fighting!

No man or woman ever achieves anything worthwhile who didn’t find themselves at one time or another, hanging well over the brink of failure.

Want to make sure you’re in the company of those who ALMOST failed? You can contact us!

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The One Confession We Cannot Disown

 

The One Confession We Can Disown

The One Confession We Can Disown

The things we say, write, do, indulge in, all the way back to the fabrics of our thoughts serves as an inescapable evidence of the very nature and spiritual essence of who we are.

These things are rooted deeply and imbedded in our hearts and makes us who we are. We cannot escape it but to consciously make a change.

If you want more details on this, you can contact us!

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Doing More is Best Compensation

 

Doing More is Best Compensation

Doing More is Best Compensation

Hill once said, “the best compensation for doing things is the ability to do more.”

This is to say, once you do something, if people want you to do more of it, you will be nicely compensated.

They will be compensated for the works you do, and you will be compensated with the ability to do more of what you enjoy and financially you’ll gain.

If you’re unable to do more, then perhaps your work is not needed or was not satisfactory. The compensation halts.

This is why the best compensation for doing things is the ability to do more. Get good and doing more and be handsomely compensated.

Of course if you need help with this, feel free to contact us!

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