Watch Your Children Watching You

 

Watch Your Children Watching You

Watch Your Children Watching You

It is just criminal to neglect children.

Children come into this world and the very people they are most enamored by are their parents, beginning with mom, then dad.

They see themselves as their parents and try to do everything their parents do. What is criminal is that a lot parents are completely blind to the laws of raising their own children.

Parents often lean on an emotional love instead of a structural love when raising their young.

Also unfortunate, most parents really didn’t plan a family, no. They just had a lot of intimate passion for each other for the or “a” moment, and figure they can get along and raise kids in dysfunction as long as they do so with love.

Nothing can be further from the truth.

I watch parent child interaction often, and what I’ve noticed is that children are watching their parents more than parents think. Especially when you’re talking about them.

I saw this young adorable five or six year old girl starring her mom’s gestures, movement, tone, and look. Her mom was talking to me and as I listened, I took glances at her and she was fixed on her mom. She was capturing everything her mom said and did.

Watch your children watching you, and if you know they are, make sure you’re giving them the stuff you really want them to emulate.

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Children are a Blessings and a Challenge

5a5I6R_oUsUChildren are a Blessing and a ChallengeSome people use to say, children can be a blessings or a curse. The reality is that children are a blessings and a challenge.

The blessing is the joy they bring as infants, and the impact they have on parents maturation process. I’ve seen the worst of people clean up their act once they had a their first child.

Children usually don’t come with an easy button. From day one it is an extreme challenge. Any parent out there knows that, I can see y’all now say, “AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!”

Children are a blessing because if we develop them correctly, we will experience joy for years to come. If we don’t step up to the challenge, we will see them rot away with the environment. We have to inspect what we expect, so parents need to be involved.

Children aren’t a set it and forget type of deal. They are trying to be like their parents and everything else around that looks cool, flashy, and popular. Parents need to check things at the door with wisdom and authority. This builds trust.

Problem:

Too often, especially in our modern day, children are having children. And don’t think for a minute you’re not a child even if you’re 29. It is more so what you have within your mind. Children are having children and they can only replicate in development, children. A lot of parents have nothing to offer their children. A pair of Jordans or haircut every week is not worth an ear of corn.

What do you give your children emotionally and mentally? What can they hold onto for time immemorial? Parents, and the extended family and community make the children.

Children are a Blessings and a Challenge

Children are blessings and a challenge!

In the book of Psalm (yeah it’s in the Bible, yeah I read it from time to time)

At chapter 127 it says, “children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” Jesus made it plain to bring the children to Him. This is to say, children are vital, they are our greatest responsibility and investment. Psalm goes on to say, “Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them.”

Most people aren’t too happy today to have a lot of children because of the system of raising children has changed. NEVERTHELESS, don’t forget, they are challenging, but you as the parent must be up for the game!

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Taking No Thought

 

Taking No ThoughtIn the Bible, there are a lot of scriptures that pertain to helping us improve life, business, professional, and personal altogether. In particularly, Jesus said to take no thought of your life regarding what you are going to eat, what you going to drink, what you’re going to wear; because life is much bigger than what you’re going to eat.

Life is much bigger than what you going to wear, people have made life all about that material stuff and in the process we’ve forgotten how to rule ourselves by ruling our thoughts.

You don’t have to worry about your needs, and likewise, if you transfer the same faith you have for your needs to your wants and desires, you will be operating on absolute faith.

If we think of ourselves as children of God, children of the Universe, children of the Ultimate Intelligence, then we can learn by what the Universe has done with us through our children. I’m fortunate to have kids and in observing them, I realize a few things from young kids, (shoot) even most teenagers. They normally take no thought of food, clothing, shelter, or any of the common “needs” we typically have. Thousands of people worry about these common needs everyday.

Taking No Thought

They (children) have the absolute faith that they will receive the things they need from their parents. When it comes to a want or desire, such as a toy, fancy gadget, they simply come and ask me for it. Normally, I can tell from their level of faith, enthusiasm, and persistence if they are going to get what they are asking for from me. And I know when they do receive what they truly wanted; they will have the smile on from ear to ear and the face of gratitude on them.

I love that level of faith and gratitude, and that is what I’m reminded of when I think of the phrase, “taking no thought.” You don’t have to worry about your needs, and likewise, if you transfer the same faith you have for your needs to your wants and desires, you will be operating on absolute faith. Absolute faith in yourself, is absolute faith in your Creator and nothing beats that. I should make the point that taking no thought is not exactly not to think about food, clothing, shelter, but rather not to worry about not having food clothing and shelter.

The animals don’t worry about it; they are instinctive about their needs knowing the Creator will provide. They are taking no thought of what they will eat, drink, and wear. And the thing about all of this is that we are much better than the animals of the field because we are made after the image of the Creator.

Absolute faith in yourself, is absolute faith in your Creator and nothing beats that.

You do want to take thought in the sense that you think about how gracious the Creator is to you for the food, drink, clothing, house, job, business, friends, family, and all the beautiful wonders of life the Creator has bestowed upon you! You have to focus on the good, focus on what you want, and if hardships come your way, be thankful you found a way to get through them to get back to the goodness of the Creator. Taking no thought, means don’t think about how you’re going to eat, drink, and dress, simply think and know you will be because the Creator has you.

Think of how well you are dressed, how  well you eat, and how well you live and you’ll have those things operating out of complete faith.

Peace and blessings,

Due Daniels

“Mental Scientist…”

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25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

26 Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?

How to Stop your Kids from Going Bad

 

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How to Stop Your Kids from Going Bad
We’re not saying the kid in the picture is bad…he may have just had a rough moment!

Many parents have the problem of not being able to control their kids at a certain point or age. Your Kids begin to look like the kids in the movies, you know the bad ones going nowhere with no direction.

Once they begin to go bad, you could become harsh and critical of them, you could be nice and buy them stuff, you could do everything within your power, but for some reason you no longer can reach them anymore. How do you stop this or how do you correct this so that you can be able to reach your children or child and stop them from themselves.

 

How to Stop your Kids from Going Bad

The first thing you can do is to listen to your child or your children more. Take the time to sit down and listen to them even when they are talking to other people. Listen to them, the way they talk, watch their body movement, watch the gestures that they make, listen to everything because they are saying much to you. And once they see that you are listening to them, then they know that they have a voice and that will really connect you to them much better

The second thing you can do is to spend some more time with your child or children. One of the best ways to spend time with your children of course is to not work a job and be able to be home with them, even home school them. However this is not a ready convenience for everyone so the next best thing is to make conscious efforts after work or school to sit down and have conversations with your children or child.

Plan things with them, have them help you cook dinner in a fun way, have them help you set the table clean the floor teaching teamwork, all this is letting them get closer to you and feel like an contributor to the family. Also before everyone or before they go to bed,talk with them, have another meeting with your kids to see how their day went from top to bottom and see what they want to do tomorrow.

 

Some Ideas of How to Stop your Kids from Going Bad

Another thing you can do is give them decision-making abilities. Here you allow them to make decisions. Give them options of what they can do, and allow them to make a decision. You can critique the decision-making and tell them where you would go or do, of course remind him or her that you have twenty years experience on them, but allowed them to start making decisions.

Last but not least, keep them away from bad people and bad kids. Most parents are not hands on in their children’s lives. Many good kids are getting eaten up by bad kids in the schools and communities. Bad kids, who come from bad parenting are destroying many of the youth in schools today. Your children go out and commune with these children and thus they bring that stuff back into your house.

 

You Now Know How to Stop your Kids from Going Bad

 

Monitor this watch it closely so that it does not corrode your entire house. You can do this by asking them where did they get something they said or learned from or what do they mean by ‘this’ and then making sure they understand your perspective on that topic. Of course you have to lay down the rules and be firm but also be understanding and rational and approachable.

Peace

Due Daniels
Author –  Life’s a Game to Win
www.LifesAGametoWin.com