Your Personal Stickability

 

Your Personal Stickability

Your Personal Stickability

Your personal ability to stick to things will count in this life. Many people say they want to do things, but when they start it may start out well however adversity will show up.

Your ability to stick with goals and objectives or things that you have put your name on and committed to, is what will count in the end. You have to determine your personal stickability.

If you do not, just remember that a habit will be formed. That habit will become a dark habit of stopping things in the middle of them being attempted.  Do not start this habit! Develop your own personal stickability and prosper.

What is something you wish you had better stickability with but didn’t stay with it? A business, relationship, a job?

Do the Work and Work Hard

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Difference in Temporary Defeat and Failure

 

Difference in Temporary Defeat and Failure

Difference in Temporary Defeat and Failure

The man or woman who understands the difference between temporary defeat and failure is very fortunate in their learning and understanding.

They understand that defeats are learning processes. A good NBA team will lose 20 to 30 times in a given season, yet that team may still win the NBA title.

The season was not a failure.

More fortunate than the man or woman who understands the above difference is the woman or man who has learned the truth that the planting of success is simply asleep in every defeat they experience.

The failure believes the seed of success was killed in a defeat, not understanding it was simply dormant. If you totally understand the difference, you will be a totally successful person!

What is something you’ve taken as a failure not realizing it was a temporary defeat?

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Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time

 

Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time?

Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time?

You’ve seen it where someone is too positive all the time. They are too positive to mourn, to feel bad, to watch the news, and are a bit out of touch with reality.

I was like that for a moment in time where I’d be around some friends of mine and they would be giving me the rundown on the atrocities and negative news going around the world and city, and I’d first of all didn’t know these types of things existed.

It started when I went on an information fast and completely stopped watching the news, reading the paper, reading news blogs, and listening to podcasts. When I did come back to info consumption, I only read books that lined up with my goals and dreams, and aspirations.

Naturally, I’m an empathetic person, so if someone called me with the news that someone died or was shot, I’d respond the way a normal person should respond to someone else’s bad sad or troubling news.

That’s terrible, and saddening. I’m really sorry to hear that. Is there anything specific you need from me (besides my unconditional care and love – I don’t say that part, but I express it)?”

From there I find positives that can counter some of the negatives and act as hope for them or light in the midst of their dark moment.

People who ignore or brush off, or quickly move to another topic, upon hearing bad news from someone else, are not being fake, but they have lost touch with reality a bit. They perhaps also have a low level of empathy or don’t know how to express empathy well.

Positive people feel all the emotions that negative or ordinary people feel. The difference is that we make a conscious decision and effort to turn the camera from the negative scene and go back to the positive one.

Are You Being Fake By Being Positive All the Time

It is possible to be positive all the time; such person is a “conscious being,” and that consciousness has seeped into their subconsciousness and that becomes all they know.

The only way they know how to respond to anything has been poured into them so that it is natural and automatic. It’s not fake, it is who they have become or transformed into.

Do you know people positive all the time, and how do you deal with them?

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Remember Punctuality

 

Remember Punctuality

Remember Punctuality

Rules of engagement states that when you have to be somewhere and more importantly, when you make an agreement or appointment to be somewhere or with someone; you must obey punctuality.

You have to put on your “I’m responsible” hat and be on time. It may look small or be a small thing to you, but it is very big in character development and personality.

Assume the responsibility of being punctual, because where an agreement is made, you owe it to yourself to obey and respect commitment and to obey and respect the other person and their time!

Need to learn some habits that will help your punctuality ability and habits? Feel non obligated to contact us!

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The Reason Why Most Things Aren’t Secure

 

The Reason Why Most Things Aren’t Secure

The Reason Why Most Things Aren’t Secure

Your life’s direction depends on a definite chief aim. When you come up with one, it will have great psychological and economical benefits in doing so.

However, even if you have selected a definite chief aim, you still must hold onto one dear fact.

This fact is that, no position in life can be rootedly secure, and no achievement can be made permanent without it being built on the foundations of truth and justice.

If your position and achievements were not built on truth, guess what, the truth will eventually show up and demand his seat. If it was not built in justice towards all, your position and achievements will do like humpty dumpty and the walls of Jericho; they will come tumbling down.

Strong foundations last and nothing is stronger than truth and justice.

Of course if you need help with this, feel free to contact us!

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The Duty of Being Pleasant

 

The Duty of Being Pleasant

The Duty of Being Pleasant

Charles Buxton said, “You have not fulfilled every duty unless you have fulfilled that of being pleasant.”

What is “pleasant?”

Pleasant is defined as giving a sense of happy satisfaction or enjoyment to someone or something. When people leave your presence, did you give them the feeling of being enjoyable or pleasurable, or did they say, “thank God that is over?”

Even like the photo says, ‘pretending to be a pleasant person all day is exhausting’ people who can pretend (which is most the world who work in grocery or department stores – hey lets face it a lot of you are are faking and for good reason because some lousy customers role in there and you have to pretend with them) have more success than those who don’t put any effort in at all.

Don’t believe me, shop at a Trader Joes, then go to a Walmart and tell me which experience you enjoyed better?

We have to remember that the people we attract to us will reciprocate the acts of kindness and service that we have given to others. The other day, some young kids were in a store and they were short 3 to 4 dollars for some toys they were trying to purchase.

They were like 10, 12 years of age. Their parents must have been in the car, so I just paid the rest for them. They were overjoyed and thanked me.

A couple weeks later, I’m in a grocery store and forgot to take my cash in with me (I don’t like using debit or credit cards in stores), so I didn’t have enough to buy the milk I wanted, so I put it back.

The man behind me follows me out the store with the milk. I was surprised, I thanked him and he went off into the sea of the world as I did with those kids.

Anyway, being pleasant will come back to you if you put it out and if you pretend long enough, it’ll become natural.

Of course if you want to learn how to be more pleasant, feel free to contact us for ideas that will suit you best!

Faults and Responsibility Take One!

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Responsibility and Fault

 

Responsibility and Fault

Responsibility and Fault

Popular song or rap song came out back in the 90s, where an artist named Mystikal coined a song titled, “It Ain’t My Fault.”

We’re not going to go into the song details, but what the hook screamed is what lots of people think every day.

When something happens, people are quick to say and think it is not their fault. It ain’t my fault leads to a light level of  “it ain’t my problem,” which leads to “it ain’t my responsibility.”

In your relationships, on your jobs, in your business, and everywhere else in between, if you can get to a point of taking the responsibility, you are going to lesson the problem.

If you lessen the problem, you’ll actually offset the finger point of whose fault it really is. Even if a situation is not your fault, it may still be your responsibility.

Obviously, there is always someone or something to blame in situations, but if you practice taking responsibility, the fault won’t matter.

Of course if you want to be an entrepreneur or person who takes responsibility, feel free to contact us for ideas that will suit you best!

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